Welcome back to
DeathJester’s Dojo. This week, I’ll be
talking about cultivating the very
foundation for success at anything; in
this case YGO. In order to start putting
together the building blocks of success,
you need to have a plan. How do you
design this plan? Is there a right way
to do it? No. You can design your plan
anyway you like. The only condition is
that you set realistic goals. You
can’t become World Champion in a week
right?
This plan is based on
goals. If you set detailed and
realistic goals for yourself, there’s
nothing you can’t do. As an exercise,
try writing down your goals in this game
(Remember, this exercise applies to real
life as well). Be sure to be specific
about what time frame you would like to
accomplish these goals in. For example:
Short Term (1-3 months):
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Construct a successful Beatdown deck
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Win my local tournament 5 times
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Top 16 at a Regional Tournament
Mid-Term (3-6 months):
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Win 2 Regional Tournaments
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Win 2 Hobby League Championships
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Top 8 at an SJC
Long Term (6 months to 1
year)
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Win a Shonen Jump Championship
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Top 8 at Nationals
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Win 4 Regionals
It’s always more clear
when you write your goals down on paper.
It’s harder to ignore them that way.
I’ve always found that if you keep your
goals in memory, you tend to forget
about them when the going gets tough. Do
yourself a favor and write/type your
Short, Mid, and Long Term goals RIGHT
NOW…
Done with that? Good. Now
take that sheet of paper, get some tape,
push-pin, staples, or whatever you can
find to hang this up somewhere. When
you’ve got your materials, put that baby
up somewhere you always go. It
could be your house, car, bathroom; it
doesn’t matter where it is, just make
sure that you can see it every single
day as a reminder of what your goals
are. You’ve just taken the first step.
The objective here is to reduce the
amount of excuses you can give yourself
to not follow through with your goals.
Think you’ve got excuses? I’ve got more
of them. I’m probably the laziest guy on
earth, but damn it I get myself out
there and accomplish the things I
want to accomplish. It’s all about
what you want to do anyway right?
A good thing to remember
is to not limit your goals to just
competitive YGO. Part of achieving
success at anything is setting goals
that will make you feel like you
accomplished something significant at
whatever you are interested in. You
define your own success. If you want to
be the most competent UDE Judge in YGO,
then by all means do so. If it’s your
goals to be the most prominent writer in
the entire YGO community, then DO IT.
Set your goals and get moving!
Knowing what you’re
doing
It’s one thing to set
goals. It’s entirely a different story
staying on track with them. This is why
I would like to get into the topic of
self evaluation.
It’s important to have
goals; yes. It’s important to be
constantly reminded of them; yes. It’s
ALSO important to evaluate those goals.
Goals are not always set in stone. Goals
change just like we do. Sometimes your
goals are not really what you wanted.
What if you accomplished the goal of
winning a Regional Tournament? What now?
You’re stuck. This is where self
evaluation comes into play. You have to
ask yourself “Ok, I won this
Regional…now what?” Don’t avoid
questions like that. This is part of why
we have our one-hit wonder SJC/Regionals
Winners. They may be truly talented at
this game, yet they can’t win another
major event if their life depended on
it.
You should always keep
progressing forward. Cultivate new goals
from your experiences, change them, and
scrutinize them with the most critical
of eyes. That’s only way you can create
strong and well-defined goals. Once you
set your mind on your goals, no one can
stop you from achieving them, not even
YOU.
Here are sample questions
to ask yourself about your goals (we’re
talking YGO here of course):
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How
does this particular activity relate to
my current goals?
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Am I
any closer to achieving my goals?
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Do I
need to change my goals in response to
what has happened recently?
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What
will I do after I achieve this goal?
Even if you fail, the
best thing you can do for yourself is to
seize the opportunities for success you
are given from failure. You can’t
succeed if you don’t fail first. How the
hell would you know what to do if you
didn’t mess up the first couple times?
It’s like learning how to ride a bike,
tying a shoe, or even playing your deck
correctly. The pros aren’t always truly
talented geniuses at everything they do.
Everyone has to learn. You want to know
what the difference between a genius and
the average person is. A genius just
learns a tiny bit faster. A genius uses
his/her creative imagination to build
well-defined and realistic goals to
become that much more proficient at
whatever he/she does. Anyone can do
that. There’s nothing mystifying about
it. Be positive and aggressive about
achieving your goals.
I’ll leave you with my
absolute favorite quote from Thomas
Edison.
“I am not discouraged.
Each failed attempt is the next step
toward progress” –Thomas
Edison
Email me at:
deathjester86@gmail.com with any
questions or comments.